I am writing this post to actually make MYSELF feel better. I was at lunch with a friend of mine today and the waitress wasn’t giving us very good service. Now, I could understand if the place was packed or she was short handed BUT…That wasn’t the case.
Anyway, thepoint is, I have been going to this resturant for a couple of years and have been waited on by this same waitress. At the end of the meal, I was a little annoyed because of her service and TOLD her so.
Well…She got all defensive and said to me…” Well I guess I have to expect that from a Bi Sexual bitch”… “WHAT did you just say to me I asked, and she repeated it”. Now, I have been there with men AND women and have been romantic with each BUT…For her to come out and say something like that was very hurtful.
It was almost as if Bi Sexual people have their own ROTTEN personlities or something. I paid the check, and husseled my Bi Sexual ass outta there just as quickly as possible. Later, I called the restaurant back, (After I had calmed down), and spoke with the manager about what had happened.
You could tell from my NOT so nice disposition, (Bi Sexual) I guess, that I was really pissed…He was VERY displeased and said that he would take care of the problem, and then he offered me two free lunches.
That was nice of him to do that BUT, my feelings were STILL very hurt. Hey…It’s not MY fault I am wired like I am. I am really a very nice person if you get to know me. I will give you the shirt off my back, to EITHER a man OR a woman…REALLY…
I am have been very sensitive to this issue since I was a kid. Time in and out I have been ostracized for being ANYTHING but straight. I am so tired of small minded people who judge others on their sexuality as opposed to their actions.
I am over the incident now but I guess STILL pissed off about the whole idea of prejudice. Thank you for letting me vent…I needed to do this….