I really don’t know how to start this letter. I have been following you, and you seem like you give people good advice. My situation borders on the crazy, I hope you can help me.
You see Sooz, I am a sexual mess. I am a 28 year old bisexual woman who loves to watch others having sex. I “need” to watch porn of others becoming aroused, women getting wet, and then watching as they writhe in passion.
Usually, I start masturbating as I watch because I become just soaked with lusting desire. My partners think I am crazy that I need to do this before I can become aroused. What do you think? Is this normal, and can you help me?
Soaked in Tampa
First, let me just say that you are NOT crazy. Everybody has different sexual needs, wants, and desires. I myself have sexual ODDITIES if you will, that some may think crazy.
My question to you would be, are you able to have normal sex after following this routine? I mean will your partners play along with this and then have sex? If so, I see nothing wrong with you engaging in this activity.
Of course…Let me be clear…If you are engaging in ANY form of child pornography, you need help immediately as there IS a problem. Not only is it illegal, but it is something that would need to be addressed via a Psychiatrist, Trained Therapist, or Sex Therapist.
Otherwise, I would say that you, like the rest of the world’s population is screwed up, go and have yourself a good and healthy sex life…Good Luck…