Just Ask Sooz

Just Ask Sooz

Dear Sooz:

I am a 31 year old woman who as an embarrassing question to ask. My husband is older than I am by 15 years and he has started to have erectile dysfunction problems.

He is a very proud man and really doesn’t want to take Viagra on a regular basis. Our sex life was always great up until about 6 months ago when he started to have trouble.

His Dr. has prescribed the medication for him, but, he is very uneasy about taking it, saying he feels he should be able to satisfy me without drugs. I have told him time and time again that I love him and that as you age, sometimes these things just happen.

I am considering just slipping the medication into his orange juice or coffee so he doesn’t know that he is getting his erection from the little blue pill. What is your opinion on this?

Deflated ego


Dear deflated:

If your husband is only 46, there can be many things causing his deflated member. It could be due to prescription medications, stress, anxiety, over tiredness, or many other factors.

I suggest he go to a Urologist and have a thorough exam done. This will insure there are no physical reasons for his problem. If everything is OK, then, see if he will see a counselor who may be able to detect one of the other problems I was referring to earlier.

If all else fails, discuss it with him about how taking Viagra to get an erection is no big deal for you. Tell him that you love him and that you just want to have your normal sex life back. Good luck…


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