This is kind of a delicate question but here goes. My husband has an overactive attraction to porn, I mean anything porn. We have been married for 8 years, and two years ago, he started watching porn on the internet.
While I realize that men watch porn sometimes, he is always on the computer, from the time he’s home from work, until he comes to bed. Then, when he does come to bed, he is all wound up and expects me to immediately satisfy his lascivious cravings he sees on the internet..
He maintains that all guys watch porn, and that I should stop bugging him about it. It just makes me feel demeaned when he spends all his time watching all sorts of porn, and then he pays no attention to me. Am I wrong here Sooz?
Frustrated Porn Wife
Dear Frustrated Porn Wife:
No, you are NOT wrong. Guys WILL watch porn now and then, but ALL the time is totally unhealthy. There have been studies that show if a man watches too much porn, sometimes he may lose his ability to enter into a “normal sex relationship.” Many times, he will also lose his ability to cum unless it is to porn.
Don’t get me wrong, I like to read a sexy novel, or watch a little porn with friends sometimes, but your husband needs to see a psychologist or psychiatrist. What he doesn’t understand, is that he is basing his current sexual urges and reality on UN-REAL behavior, and he needs to go and get his headset straight.
Try dressing a little sexier for him so he uses YOU as his sexual mate, as opposed to all that fake internet stuff that makes billions of dollars and screws up people’s minds. Good luck…