Random Thoughts/ Just Ask Sooz

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Hello my friends, sorry I haven’t been around in a few days; I am still grieving over the loss of Bella. I can’t seem to manage to do anything these days except tip a glass. Oh well, life goes on, right?

I must say, everyone I know has been very supportive which has helped me tremendously, thank you. You never know who your true friends are unless something like this has happened.

 Today I went out and bought a few simple gifts as a thank you. It actually felt good to get out into the open air and just breathe again. I have been cooped up in my home boozing for so long; I had forgotten what the real world looks like.

For the folks who read me, I want to apologize for not being a very good writer lately. As it turns out, I too am Human and have feelings like everybody else. Feeling better now, I believe I will start creative writing again shortly.

Admittedly, I miss both my readers and the daily writing. Thank all of you for being patient. I will leave you with a quick Just Ask Sooz post.

Dear Sooz:

I need your advice. Last night, my husband of 15 years came home drunk and told me he has been having affair with my best friend. I was flabbergasted, hurt, angry, and a whole bunch of other emotions rattling around in my head.

I left for a hotel because he was too drunk to talk about it last night. Today, I went back home and found him hung over, and crying. I asked him two questions right off:

  1. Did he love her?
  2. Why?

He said that he didn’t love her, it was just sex. He maintained that he still loved me and that he had been making a mistake. Why??? He claims that he has a voracious sexual appetite and that I had not been fulfilling it lately.

He was sorry and he wanted to keep things status quo. Sooz, I don’t know if I can do that. What would be your suggestion?

Confused and Hurt

 

Dear Confused and Hurt:

First of all, do you still love him, and are you willing to forgive this indiscretion? If so, I would recommend marriage counseling for you both. Secondly, what about his sexual appetite? Are you able to satisfy him more often or not?

It seems to me that he had NO regard for you while he was playing footsie with your best friend. I am doubtful here, but, if you are willing to try and forgive, I would go ahead with counselling and see where it goes. If not, pack up and walk away.

Good luck!!!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Portrait of a Lover

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Drunk… As I write this, I am fully tipsy. Oh doth the pain trouble my aching heart. My soul is ripped, and I suffer the unending arrows of love, shot through my inebriated shell of a body.

Bella is gone; she has fled back to France without a word of comfort, only saying she could no longer live the life of opulence and splendor. WHAT??? My swollen eyes morn for her return, yet my mind reveals the truth.

I believed we were a match made in Heaven, a symbiotic relationship joined through love and admiration. One as a body, and one soul united through the truth of a perfect union.

I understand now that the truth reveals divergent paths. Are there no rules when it comes to love, should there BE so much hurt and disappointment for such a wondrous thing?

Woe, I say, for the aggrieved soul that is floating, as a bit of flotsam doth float in the sea, to recover a loss, is like waiting on the fallen rain to grow a single flower, slow as time passes, yet, fully and meaningful.

Once again, life starts anew, and leaves the weathered and confused soul to recover.

Cheers!!!

 

 

 

Is President Trump doing a Good Job

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Currently, according to the latest Gallop poll, Trump is averaging a whopping 45% approval rate. It has been as low as 35% across the board. I am NOT judging, just giving you an accurate look at our current president.

Some like him, some don’t. Some people are quick to dismiss his boyish antics such as groping women, then laughing about it in the boys “locker room”. Personally, I am not, as millions of other women hold the same opinion.

Personally, I believe he is a bully and a chauvinistic pig. Once again though, this is just MY opinion. Has he done some good things for our country, yes, but, he has also pulled some real boners.

The Good Things He Has Done

According to Marc A. Thiessen, he has done the following good things:

  • He ENFORCD President Barack Obama’s red line against Syria’s use of chemical weapons. OK, this WAS a good thing as Syria was killing their own people with chemical weapons. Syria backed down and thousands of lives were saved.

 

  • He took a surprisingly tough stance with Russia. Trump approved a 47 million dollar arms package for the Ukraine, sent troops to Poland’s border, and placed new and stronger sanctions on Russia for violating the intermediate nuclear treaty.

 

  • He recognized Jerusalem as capitol of Israel. Four presidents SAID they would do it, Trump did it.

 

  • He has eliminated the Islamic States physical Caliphate. He removed the constraints on our military that Obama imposed, and let the military drive the terrorists from their strong holds.

 

  • Probably one of the best things he has done is he enabled historic tax and regulatory reform that has unleashed economic growth.

 

Now, let’s look at the down side:

  • Trump has given Miranda rights to TERRORISTS…WHAT??????
  • Over and over again, he has attacked the FBI and the intelligence community as idiots, and people who don’t know their left hand from their right??? Really, Donald??? Aren’t you kind of judging YOURSELF here???

 

  • His NOXIOUS tweets undermine his presidency. Please…Have some CLASS!!!

 

  • He dismissed Russian interference in the 2016 election…During a trip to Asia, Trump said when Vladimir Putin said Russia had NOTHING to do with it, he believed him…WHAT??? That’s absurd…Putin DIRECTED the meddling.

 

  • He stood by Roy Moore, a suspected sex predator. This turned a MULTITUDE of both men and women against him. What were you thinking Donald? Tsk,Tsk,Tsk!!!

 

  • Trump should have IMMEDIALTELY condemned the Alt Right during the tragedy in Charlottesville. As President, there is NO PUSSY FOOTING around with Neo-Nazi’s. Wrong is wrong, and he should have stood his stood his ground there. This made him look very weak in the American public’s eyes. BAD Job here buddy…

 

According to Marc A. Thiessen, “Trump should be celebrating a year of achievement, but instead his administration is hemorrhaging public support. When Trump took office, he had 45 percent approval. Yet today — despite policy successes at home and abroad, economic growth exceeding 3 percent and unemployment at a 17-year low — his approval has dropped 10 points to 35 percent, the lowest of any modern president at this time in his administration. If Trump wants to understand why, he can start with this list.”

You be the judge…

Until Later…

Just Ask Sooz

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Dear Sooz

When I married my husband, he had a 13 year old daughter. Now, in his eyes, the world starts and ends with her, in “my eyes”, she is a pain in the ass. She is messy, doesn’t listen to me, and “never” wants to help out with the chores.

When I try and correct her, my husband defends her and practically jumps down my throat. I am getting very tired of her behavior Sooz, I have spoken to my husband about it but, he just doesn’t want to get involved.

Should I put my foot down, or, right up her ass? This is really getting to me.

Fed up Wife

 

Dear Fed up Wife:

OK, here is what I would do. I would take his daughter alone somewhere, maybe shopping, and discuss with HER what really bothers you. Tell her you don’t like being a bitch, and that you would LIKE to get along with her.

Ask her, could she please keep her room relatively clean and when you need help, would she please give it to you. Hopefully, the nice approach will work, if not, tell your husband that you are fed up and that things need to change.

The very LAST thing I would do is contact her mother and ask her if she can get involved to help you. I don’t know, I am not a child psychologist, but I would try these things first before bringing in an outside source. Good Luck…