I am writing this while I am drunk. My boyfriend of 3 years has just left me. He claims I am a bad girlfriend and that I only want to have sex with him when I’m drunk.
While that is true Sooz, when we were together, I usually was drunk at which point I would have sex with him.
It’s just something within me that feels better having sex when I am relaxed and confident. What’s wrong with having sex that way anyway?
I don’t know what’s wrong with me Sooz, right now, I just wanna fuck the world. Any thoughts?
Broken Hearted Drunk
Dear Broken Hearted Drunk:
I have addressed this before, several women like to have a drink or two before making love. The kicker, as I see it, is he didn’t like you being drunk. Were you a slobbering drunk, or just “relaxed”?
It sounds to me as if you may have been a slobbering drunk. If that was the case, you have more than a boyfriend problem, you MAY have a drinking problem.
I would recommend you see a Dr. about this who could advise you of a program near you. There will always be other boyfriends, first get yourself straight, THEN you may be able to keep a boyfriend next time.